Complex Trauma (C-PTSD) Support in Melbourne: Healing from Prolonged Trauma
- Daniel Shaw
- 6 days ago
- 4 min read
Updated: 4 days ago
While many people associate trauma with single, shocking events, some traumatic experiences are prolonged or repeated over months or years, often occurring within important relationships. This type of experience – such as ongoing childhood abuse or neglect, long-term domestic violence, or captivity – can lead to a distinct set of challenges known as Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD), sometimes also referred to as Disorders of Extreme Stress Not Otherwise Specified (DESNOS).
If you've endured prolonged trauma, you might find that standard descriptions of PTSD don't fully capture the depth and breadth of your struggles. Understanding C-PTSD and knowing that specialised, compassionate support is available here in Melbourne is vital for healing.

What is Complex PTSD (C-PTSD)?
C-PTSD develops in response to chronic, inescapable trauma where the victim has little or no power. While it includes many core PTSD symptoms (like intrusions, avoidance, and hyperarousal – discussed in our PTSD article Navigating PTSD Treatment in Melbourne: A Guide to Getting Help), C-PTSD is also characterised by deeper, more pervasive difficulties affecting a person's sense of self and their ability to connect with others.
These additional challenges often include:
Difficulties with Emotional Regulation: Intense mood swings, overwhelming anger or sadness, persistent feelings of emptiness, suicidal thoughts, or difficulty managing distress, sometimes leading to self-harming behaviours.
Disturbances in Self-Perception: Profound feelings of worthlessness, shame, or guilt; feeling fundamentally flawed or different from others; feeling helpless or like a failure.
Disturbances in Relationships: Difficulty trusting others, fear of intimacy, repeating unhealthy relationship patterns (either isolating oneself or becoming overly dependent), or struggles with boundaries.
Alterations in Attention or Consciousness (Dissociation): Feeling detached from your body or emotions (depersonalisation), feeling like the world isn't real (derealisation), memory gaps (amnesia), or experiencing distinct shifts in identity states.
Physical Symptoms (Somatisation): Chronic pain, fatigue, digestive issues, or other physical problems that may not have a clear medical explanation but are linked to chronic stress and trauma.
Alterations in Systems of Meaning: Loss of faith or core beliefs, persistent feelings of hopelessness or despair about the future, or struggling to find meaning in life.
Because C-PTSD often stems from relational trauma (where harm occurred within relationships), it deeply impacts one's ability to feel safe with others and within oneself.
An Example:
Chloe is a successful lawyer working in Melbourne. Growing up with constant parental criticism and emotional neglect, Chloe now finds herself struggling despite outward success. She experiences intense anxiety before work presentations, followed by days of harsh self-criticism ("I'm useless," "Everyone sees through me"). She longs for close friendships but finds herself pulling away when people get too close, terrified of being judged or abandoned. Minor setbacks at work can trigger overwhelming feelings of shame or sudden, unexplained anger, sometimes followed by periods where she feels completely numb and disconnected from everything around her. She often feels exhausted and suffers from frequent tension headaches. Chloe's experience illustrates how the deep wounds of prolonged relational trauma can manifest as C-PTSD, impacting emotions, self-worth, and relationships long after the original experiences have ended.
(Please note: This is a fictional vignette created for illustrative purposes only.)
Why Therapy Focused on C-PTSD is crucial
Healing from C-PTSD requires more than just addressing traumatic memories. It necessitates a therapeutic approach that understands the profound impact of prolonged trauma on identity, relationships, and emotional regulation. Key elements of effective C-PTSD therapy include:
A Strong Therapeutic Relationship: Building trust and safety with your therapist is paramount. This relationship becomes a space to explore relational patterns and experience a different, healthier way of connecting.
A Phased Approach: Treatment typically follows the three phases (Safety/Stabilisation, Processing, Integration), but often requires significantly more time and focus on the initial phase of building safety, coping skills, and emotional regulation capacity before directly processing trauma memories.
Addressing Attachment Issues: Therapy often explores how early relational trauma impacted attachment patterns and works towards building earned secure attachment.
Working with Dissociation: Therapists experienced in C-PTSD understand how to work respectfully and effectively with dissociative experiences.
Focus on Self-Concept: Helping clients challenge deeply ingrained negative beliefs and develop a more compassionate and integrated sense of self.
Treatment Approaches for C-PTSD at Shaw Psychology
At Shaw Psychology in Melbourne, our general and clinical psychologists are experienced in working with the complexities of C-PTSD. We utilise a phased, integrated approach, drawing upon evidence-based therapies tailored to your specific needs:
Phase 1 Focus (Safety & Stabilisation): Utilising skills from Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to build emotional regulation, distress tolerance, mindfulness, and interpersonal effectiveness. Somatic (body-based) approaches are also crucial here to help regulate the nervous system and increase body awareness.
Schema Therapy: Particularly helpful for identifying and changing long-standing negative patterns (schemas) related to self-worth, relationships, and trust that often stem from early developmental trauma.
Attachment-Focused Therapies: Addressing the impact of relational trauma on current relationship patterns and working towards building secure connections.
Trauma Processing (When Ready): Carefully paced use of therapies like Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) or trauma-focused cognitive therapies (like CPT) to process specific traumatic memories once sufficient stability is achieved.
Finding C-PTSD Support in Melbourne
Given the complexities involved, seeking a general or clinical psychologist with specific experience and training in complex trauma, dissociation, and attachment is highly recommended. At Shaw Psychology, this is a core area of our expertise. Various funding pathways, including Medicare (with a Mental Health Treatment Plan from your GP), the Financial Assistance Scheme for Victims of Crime, TAC, and the National Redress Scheme, may be available depending on your circumstances (see our PTSD article for more details).
Healing is a Journey: Take the Next Step with Shaw Psychology
Recovering from complex trauma is a journey, not a quick fix. It requires patience, courage, and the right support. Building a life with more emotional stability, healthier relationships, and a stronger sense of self is possible.
If you resonate with the descriptions of C-PTSD and are looking for specialised, compassionate support in Melbourne:
Contact us today on (03) 9969 2190, visit our website at www.shawpsychology.com to learn more, or book an initial consultation directly online here: https://bit.ly/bookshawpsychology
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